You are not your past.
Girl, I get it.
It feels like drinking has always been there for you; a constant and reliable companion. A fast and easy way to let loose, relax, or celebrate.
Drinking is how you connect with others. It’s woven into every part of your life, and gosh, if we really get down to it, wrapped up in your entire identity.
But lately, you get the feeling that something’s not quite right.
Maybe, in those rare, quiet moments when you’re completely honest with yourself, you realise that drinking hasn’t felt like fun for a while. Maybe the two-day hangovers, bloating, and dark circles under your eyes have left you feeling less than stellar.
Sure, you’ve tried drinking in moderation – and it goes really well for a while.
A few days, a few weeks… But then, just when you’re feeling confident – just when you think you’ve got this thing under control – you have one of ‘those’ nights. Ugh.
You don’t want to be this person anymore.
Sleeping all day; snapping at your partner or kids; brimming with shame and regret. This is not the life you signed up for. This is not who you truly are.
But you don’t know how, or even IF, there’s another way.
What if you could just take a break from drinking for a while? See what life might be like?
You know, take sobriety for a test drive…
Sweet relief where there used to be obsessing about whether or not to drink tonight. Freedom from making up rules around your drinking (that you can never seem to stick to). A blissful absence of embarrassing texts, or apologising to friends.
Just a season of exquisite and powerful freedom.
A chance to learn new strategies for socialising, dealing with emotions, and managing stress, so alcohol didn’t have such a hold over you.
Better yet, imagine you discovered that the longer you went without drinking, the more confident you felt in every situation. That every single relationship in your life blossomed from the one you first had with yourself.
Because feeling tired, hungover, and anxious isn’t sexy.
Feeling empowered, passionate, and sparkling with authentic confidence?
Now that’s sexy.
Sexy Sobriety is a membership site for women who are oh-so-ready to fully explore their deepest aspirations and wellbeing.
Your ultimate Sobriety Mastermind, Toolkit and Game Plan.
In 90 days, we’ll get you back to the heart of YOU.
The thing about drinking is we can forget what we even used to enjoy before wine came along. Throughout this program, you’ll rediscover what makes you tick; what lights you up. Not only that, but you’ll discover exactly how and why this self-awareness is so powerful.
Together, we’ll write a whole new story.
A story that focuses on where you’re going, not where you’ve been.
It’s time to embrace your potential and create a life you’re truly excited about.
To wake up every morning with presence, a feeling of connection, and a sense of purpose. To bounce around in your skinny jeans with boosted energy, better digestion, clearer skin, and eyes that actually sparkle. To have the courage and clarity to figure out what you want from this precious life, and to chase down your dreams!
Because no matter what your pattern or reason for drinking may be, there’s a whole other side of life without the booze.
A side that is brighter. A side that brings out the best in YOU.
Are you ready to meet that side of you?
Your journey starts now. Say yes to a life you love.
Your Quarterly Membership
Welcome to 90 daily lessons in self-love and living your best life:
:: Create your own sober toolkit, filled with strategies and coping mechanisms that work for YOU and your unique lifestyle.
:: Inspire yourself to do things you’ve never done before, and open your world up to all-new possibilities outside of the old drink-hangover-regret cycle.
:: Harness the mind-blowing benefits of great nutrition and decluttering, and how they have the power to skyrocket your personal growth.
:: Whip up glow-inducing recipes and elixirs that taste as fabulous as they look.
:: Bust through any barriers that have previously held you back (showstoppers like resistance, overwhelm and self-sabotage – or what we like to refer to as ‘outsmarting The Beast’).
:: Identify what it is you’re really craving (hint: it’s rarely the alcohol itself!).
:: Use journal prompts to get to the truth of your relationship with alcohol and who you really are.
:: Practice transformative communication techniques, and strengthen your relationships and connections in a whole new way.
:: Create a healthy lifestyle that is a whole heap of fun! Make new friends, explore new passions, hobbies and interests, and navigate events like a sober superstar.
:: Truly nourish yourself, in every sense of the word.
Waiting Inside for You
Members-Only Access
90 Daily Lessons
24/7 Access
Journals & Inspiration
Elixirs & Desserts
Kickass Confidence
Our Game Plan
Phase 1: Take Stock; Take Control
You know you feel better when you don’t drink… but what will you say to people? How will you have fun? How will you manage stress, without wine? In Month 1, we focus on building a rock solid foundation for your fresh start. We dive into who you are, your strengths, your dreams and goals, and making aligned decisions to bring your vision to life. Most importantly, we start utilising powerful tools that can help you get there – tools that will serve you today, and every single day of your future.
Phase 2: Get into the Groove
Now that we’re clear on your vision, we move into inspired action, with baby steps designed to create quantum leaps. We’ll dive deeper into stress management, the importance of self-care, and effective self-soothing techniques to help you create not only new habits of behaviour, but new beliefs around drinking, sobriety, and what you’re truly capable of. In Month 2, you’ll start to see and explore the world in a whole new way; a way that truly brings you joy.
Phase 3: Looking Good; Looking Ahead
In Month 3, you’ll reinforce all of the daily lessons to design a life you truly love. We’ll cover the long-term healing benefits of writing, creativity, music, and affirmations, plus the limitless power of gratitude, stillness, movement, and visualisation, to have you rocking your new lifestyle well into the future. Plus, we’ll show your body more love as we explore the connection between gut health, brain health, and sobriety – empowering you to take even better care of YOU.
Plus:
Special Bonus: Live Q&A Sessions with me every week between Jan-Mar 2020!
I’m thrilled to be hosting a special, guided round within Sexy Sobriety – featuring live Q&A sessions on topics such as fears, nutrition, self-care, mindset, creativity, spirituality, and relationships. Our sessions take place from 5th January to 29th March, at the same time every week:
L.A. (PST) Sundays 5pm
N.Y.C. (EST) Sundays 8pm
Perth (AWST) Mondays 9am
Sydney (AEDT) Mondays 12noon
Join me for a real-time virtual hangout with members from around the world where you can ask any burning questions, share your celebrations, and receive ongoing connection and support. In each session we cover a powerful new topic designed to help you thrive throughout the program and beyond!
The Sexy Sobriety Coaching Library.
Access to our entire back catalogue of coaching call videos and webinars. Watch more than 20 hours of powerful videos on topics designed to help you dive deeper into the tips, tools and strategies provided in the program, including: ‘5 Crucial Elements for Joyful Sobriety’, ‘Self-Soothing Techniques’, ‘Navigating Emotions’, ‘Handling Flashbacks’, ‘8 Common Pitfalls in Early Sobriety’, ‘Conscious Cravings’, ‘Sober Travel’, and ‘The Delicious Power of Decluttering’.
Inspiring video interviews with strong, sober women.
Deep discussions with trailblazers who are having a ton of fun living alcohol-free and doing incredible things in the world. Learn what they’ve discovered, what they wish they knew back then, and how saying no to alcohol meant saying yes to infinite potential in their lives.
The Adventure Series.
A bonus series inspired by the question, ‘What next? What happens when we’ve been sober for a while? How do we continue taking our wellness and growth to the next level, and creating a life that truly lights us up?’ Come fly around the world with me, talking sobriety and self-care over ten big episodes!
The Vault.
Stay on as a Member after your initial 90 days, and you’ll receive access to The Vault (plus virtual trumpets, glitter and fireworks!). With new interviews, guest posts, pep talks, recipes and videos constantly being added to The Vault, you can pop in anytime you crave connection or a boost of inspiration. A weekly love note sent to your inbox will keep you in the loop with all updates and new additions.
What Members are Saying:
“I am so so soooo blown away that I have done this! It’s like I’m walking around with a blindfold taken off. The world and surroundings are the same but I am so different and better, and more alive! This site was the beginning of my awakening. Thank you for being you, Bex. And today, forever seems to soon to have another drink!” ~ Kristy, USA
“My life continues to transform… I love how many more hours I have in a day, I love logging into Sexy Sobriety and connecting with powerful, sophisticated, totally normal women who can be honest about this addiction, I love how my beautiful husband is falling in love with me all over again.” ~ Lisa, Australia
“Sexy Sobriety has changed my life. It hasn’t been rainbows and pots of gold every day, but I am SO happy and proud that I have stuck with this program! I’m definitely a different, BETTER, person today than who I was 30 days ago! You are helping so many of us women who thought we couldn’t get through sobriety. Truly a game changer!” ~ Clara, USA
“I’m so pleased to have found your fantastic program! It is so professional, compassionate, and real. I appreciated you not pushing participation, instead allowing people to engage in their own way. Additionally, your interviewing style of bringing out the absolute best in your interviewee by asking concise questions, little summarisation (you let their words remain theirs! I love this!), and focusing genuinely on the interviewee is exquisite. Thank you!” ~ Samantha, UK
“Bex, I can’t imagine doing this without your tools and guidance, other members’ insights and encouragement, or the daily emails. I still remember exactly how utterly hopeless and desperate I felt when I signed up. How impossible it felt. I have so much more emotional control, more joy, peace and hope now. You are an absolute light! To the Vault and to continued sobriety! From the bottom of my heart, thank you.” ~ Denise, Canada
“Bex, from the bottom of my heart I want to say thank you. You have changed my life… I had attempted to get help years ago, but nothing spoke to me. I was so sick of that lifestyle. I knew I was well past the point in my life where I should have drawn a line in the sand, but I wasn’t able to until I found your website. You had first hand knowledge, understood how I felt, and could explain the reasons why… I finally have my life back, most importantly I have my freedom, and you have given that to me.” ~ Ava, France
FAQs
I don’t drink that often anymore, but when I do I suffer. Will this help me?
How long does my membership last?
What if I only want to do 30 days? 90 days seems like a long time!
Will I have fun?
What about my stress levels?
What do i tell people?
How is the program delivered?
How do the live Q&A Sessions work?
Will anyone know that I’ve signed up?
I’m excited to register today but I’m not sure if I’m ready to start. Can I join now and start later?
What's your refund policy?
In order to continue to provide highly valuable content for a very reasonable price, we do not offer refunds (see our full T&Cs here). We encourage you to do the sexy, sober thing, ladylove, and not give up partway through. You can do it! Your liver (and life) will thank you.
What if I need more immediate help?
Please note that this program is in no way a replacement for individual treatment or professional help. If you, or someone you know, needs more immediate or comprehensive support or treatment to reduce your alcohol intake, please reach out to your Doctor or Health Care Professional, or your local community health service. There are many free helplines and treatment options available in Australia, such as: Reach Out, Counselling Online, AA Australia, SMART Recovery and Lifeline. You might also like to hire yourself a one-on-one coach, counsellor, or therapist. There’s nothing un-sexy about asking for a little extra help when you need it, beautiful. x
Your journey starts now. Say yes to a life you love.
If we haven’t yet met,
Hi, I’m Bex Weller.
Author of the international best-seller ‘A Happier Hour’, I’m deeply passionate about women’s wellness and empowerment.
At 39 years of age – and a Health Coach, no less – I should’ve known better than to down several bottles of wine per week. But drinking doesn’t work like that, does it? It’s a sneaky little monster that creeps up day-by-day until it completely destroys all self-worth and happiness.
Back then, I wasn’t sure if I ‘had a problem’, or if I even fit any of the typical stereotypes. But what I did know was that I was sick of the anxiety, shame and nausea, and the hold alcohol had over me. I wanted to feel confidence that was authentically me, not poured from a bottle. I wanted to experience deeper connections and self-worth; more space, more love, more potential.
In March 2014, on one of ‘those’ mornings filled with regret and tears, I decided to conduct a powerful experiment. An experiment that changed my life.
This is the coaching program I wish I’d had during those first 90 days.
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Sexy Sobriety Membership
Quarterly Subscription- (Approx. USD $220 / CAD $290 / GBP £180).
- Access to the 90-Day Program.
- Bonus Video Coaching Library.
- Special Bonus Jan-Mar 2020: live weekly Q&A sessions!
- Memberships auto-renew, so you can stay as long as you like.
- Easy 1-click cancellation. Cancel anytime.
- Join us from anywhere in the world.
- Your program begins instantly!