TIRED OF REGRETTING LAST NIGHT?
Let’s change the way you think about drinking
Introducing the sassy, soulful sobriety experiment with the power to change your relationship with alcohol – and upgrade your entire life.
changing lives since 2014
Sexy Sobriety
Join the revolution of women ditching the drink and getting more out of life. Over the past eight years, I’ve helped thousands of brave-hearted women (just like you) to create lives they love through this trailblazing 90-day sobriety coaching program. Now, it’s your turn to experience the same thing.
Because feeling tired, hungover, and anxious isn’t sexy.
Feeling empowered, passionate, and sparkling with authentic confidence?
Now that’s sexy.
Welcome to hangover-free living.
changing lives since 2014
Sexy Sobriety
Join the revolution of women ditching the drink and getting more out of life. Over the past eight years, I’ve helped thousands of brave-hearted women (just like you) to create lives they love through this trailblazing 90-day sobriety coaching program. Now, it’s your turn to experience the same thing.
Because feeling tired, hungover, and anxious isn’t sexy.
Feeling empowered, passionate, and sparkling with authentic confidence?
Now that’s sexy.
Welcome to hangover-free living.
What if you could just start over?
LEVEL WITH ME, LADY. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
What if you could just start over?
LEVEL WITH ME, LADY. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
What if you could just start over?
LEVEL WITH ME, LADY. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
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Sure, you’ve tried drinking in moderation – and it goes really well for a while. A few days, a few weeks… But then, just when you’re feeling confident – just when you think you’ve got this thing under control – you have one of ‘those’ nights. Ugh.
01
Sure, you’ve tried drinking in moderation – and it goes really well for a while. A few days, a few weeks… But then, just when you’re feeling confident – just when you think you’ve got this thing under control – you have one of ‘those’ nights. Ugh.
01
Sure, you’ve tried drinking in moderation – and it goes really well for a while. A few days, a few weeks… But then, just when you’re feeling confident – just when you think you’ve got this thing under control – you have one of ‘those’ nights. Ugh.
02
You don’t want to be this person anymore. Sleeping all day; snapping at your partner or kids; brimming with shame and regret. This is not the life you signed up for. This is not who you truly are.
02
You don’t want to be this person anymore. Sleeping all day; snapping at your partner or kids; brimming with shame and regret. This is not the life you signed up for. This is not who you truly are.
02
You don’t want to be this person anymore. Sleeping all day; snapping at your partner or kids; brimming with shame and regret. This is not the life you signed up for. This is not who you truly are.
03
You wish you’d left all this drama behind in your 20s, and you worry that this toxic cycle will still be going on at your next milestone birthday (and the thought is almost too much to bear).
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You wish you’d left all this drama behind in your 20s, and you worry that this toxic cycle will still be going on at your next milestone birthday (and the thought is almost too much to bear).
03
You wish you’d left all this drama behind in your 20s, and you worry that this toxic cycle will still be going on at your next milestone birthday (and the thought is almost too much to bear).
04
You crave sweet relief from obsessing about whether or not to drink tonight. Freedom from making up rules around your drinking (that you can never seem to stick to). A blissful absence of embarrassing texts, or apologising to friends (not to mention those late-night Facebook posts! NOOOOOO).
04
You crave sweet relief from obsessing about whether or not to drink tonight. Freedom from making up rules around your drinking (that you can never seem to stick to). A blissful absence of embarrassing texts, or apologising to friends (not to mention those late-night Facebook posts! NOOOOOO).
04
You crave sweet relief from obsessing about whether or not to drink tonight. Freedom from making up rules around your drinking (that you can never seem to stick to). A blissful absence of embarrassing texts, or apologising to friends (not to mention those late-night Facebook posts! NOOOOOO).
“Bex, I can’t imagine doing this without your tools and guidance.
I still remember exactly how utterly hopeless and desperate I felt when I signed up. How impossible it felt. I have so much more emotional control, more joy, peace and hope now. You are an absolute light! From the bottom of my heart, thank you.”
— DENISE, CANADA
VITALITY OVER VODKA
Welcome to a season of exquisite and powerful freedom.
A chance to learn new strategies for socialising, dealing with emotions, and managing stress, so alcohol won’t have such a hold over you.
Better yet, imagine you discover the longer you go without drinking, the more confident you feel in every situation. That every single relationship in your life blossoms from the one you first have with yourself.
ARE YOU READY TO MEET THAT SIDE OF YOU?
introducing…
Sexy Sobriety
Your ultimate Sobriety Mastermind, Toolkit and Game Plan. A membership site and 90-day sobriety coaching program for women who are oh-so-ready to fully explore their deepest aspirations and wellbeing.
WAITING INSIDE FOR YOU
Our Game Plan
MONTH ONE
Take stock; take control
You know you feel better when you don’t drink… but what will you say to people? How will you have fun? How on earth will you relax, without wine?
In Phase 1, we bust those fears and build a rock solid foundation for your fresh start. With each new day, you’ll build your very own sober toolkit, filled with new strategies and coping mechanisms that work for YOU and your lifestyle. We cover forgiveness, dealing with strong emotions, and what to say to people, as well as powerful plans for identifying triggers and overcoming self-sabotage (otherwise known as ‘outsmarting The Beast’!).
MONTH ONE
Take stock; take control
You know you feel better when you don’t drink… but what will you say to people? How will you have fun? How on earth will you relax, without wine?
In Phase 1, we bust those fears and build a rock solid foundation for your fresh start. With each new day, you’ll build your very own sober toolkit, filled with new strategies and coping mechanisms that work for YOU and your lifestyle. We cover forgiveness, dealing with strong emotions, and what to say to people, as well as powerful plans for identifying triggers and overcoming self-sabotage (otherwise known as ‘outsmarting The Beast’!).
MONTH TWO
Get into the groove
Now that we’re clear on your vision, we move into inspired action, with small steps designed to create quantum leaps.
In Phase 2, we get to the truth of your relationship with alcohol and who you truly are. We navigate stress and anxiety, the power of self-care, and effective self-soothing techniques, to help you create not only new patterns of behaviour (and neural pathways!), but new beliefs around drinking, sobriety, and what you’re truly capable of.
We also explore sober fun (yay!), including new passions, hobbies, and adventures that will open up your world to new possibilities outside of the old drink-hangover-regret-repeat cycle.
MONTH TWO
Get into the groove
Now that we’re clear on your vision, we move into inspired action, with small steps designed to create quantum leaps.
In Phase 2, we get to the truth of your relationship with alcohol and who you truly are. We navigate stress and anxiety, the power of self-care, and effective self-soothing techniques, to help you create not only new patterns of behaviour (and neural pathways!), but new beliefs around drinking, sobriety, and what you’re truly capable of.
We also explore sober fun (yay!), including new passions, hobbies, and adventures that will open up your world to new possibilities outside of the old drink-hangover-regret-repeat cycle.
MONTH THREE
Looking good; looking ahead
In Phase 3, we debunk the myths and marketing messages, tackle triggers, and investigate root causes. We dive deeper into healthy coping strategies including the healing benefits of journalling, creativity, music, and affirmations, along with the limitless benefits of gratitude, movement, and visualisation.
Plus, we explore the connection between gut health, brain health, and sobriety – empowering you to take even better care of YOU and see you rocking your authentically confident new self, well into the future!
MONTH THREE
Looking good; looking ahead
In Phase 3, we debunk the myths and marketing messages, tackle triggers, and investigate root causes. We dive deeper into healthy coping strategies including the healing benefits of journalling, creativity, music, and affirmations, along with the limitless benefits of gratitude, movement, and visualisation.
Plus, we explore the connection between gut health, brain health, and sobriety – empowering you to take even better care of YOU and see you rocking your authentically confident new self, well into the future!
MONTH FOUR + BEYOND
A whole new you
In Month 4 and beyond, we reinforce the daily lessons from the past 90 days with power-packed classes on topics such as: 5 Crucial Elements for Joyful Sobriety; 8 Common Pitfalls in Early Sobriety (and how to sidestep them with aplomb!); Tips for Surviving Sober Holidays (including the Festive Season!); and Loving your Sober Vacation (it really is possible!)
All-new interviews, guest posts, pep talks, recipes and resources await you in The Vault, so you can pop in any time you need a confidence boost, or to get your head straight. We’ll be cheering you on, every step of the way!
MONTH FOUR + BEYOND
A whole new you
In Month 4 and beyond, we reinforce the daily lessons from the past 90 days with power-packed classes on topics such as: 5 Crucial Elements for Joyful Sobriety; 8 Common Pitfalls in Early Sobriety (and how to sidestep them with aplomb!); Tips for Surviving Sober Holidays (including the Festive Season!); and Loving your Sober Vacation (it really is possible!)
All-new interviews, guest posts, pep talks, recipes and resources await you in The Vault, so you can pop in any time you need a confidence boost, or to get your head straight. We’ll be cheering you on, every step of the way!
As Seen On
Sexy Sobriety is…
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Navigating social events with grace, feeling completely rock-star confident without a drink in your hand.
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Navigating social events with grace, feeling completely rock-star confident without a drink in your hand.
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Waking up every morning with sweet relief, presence, and a sense of purpose.
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Waking up every morning with sweet relief, presence, and a sense of purpose.
03
Experiencing richer, deeper relationships, and being present for loved ones in a whole new way.
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Experiencing richer, deeper relationships, and being present for loved ones in a whole new way.
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Bouncing around in your skinny jeans with boosted energy, better digestion, skin that glows, and eyes that actually sparkle.
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Bouncing around in your skinny jeans with boosted energy, better digestion, skin that glows, and eyes that actually sparkle.
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Finally having the courage and clarity to figure out what you want, and to chase down your dreams!
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Finally having the courage and clarity to figure out what you want, and to chase down your dreams!
Sobriety doesn’t have to be scary.
Let me share with you a little secret I wish I knew years ago…
You don’t have to ‘have a problem’ to stop drinking. You don’t have to be ready to stop drinking forever. Your story doesn’t have to be like anyone else’s.
It’s perfectly fine to choose a new path; a new mindset. To embrace what’s best for you.
To choose a better tomorrow
How It Works
JOIN US NOW
Your membership and daily lessons begin from the moment you register. You’ll receive access to Day 1 instantly, so you can get started right away!
clock up the days
Receive an inspirational email each morning with a prompt to complete your daily lesson. Log-in from your computer, smart phone, or tablet, from anywhere in the world.
CELEBRATE YOUR SUCCESS
With weekly Q&A videos, a comprehensive Coaching Video Library, and check-in journals to mark your progress, we’re here to support you every step of the way!
“Bex, from the bottom of my heart I want to say thank you. I finally have my life back, and you have given that to me.”
– AVA, FRANCE
A year from now, you’ll wish you’d started today
TAKE MY HAND AND LET’S DO THIS TOGETHER
Sexy Sobriety Membership
Monthly Subscription
$99
Per Month
- Access to the 90-Day Program.
- Bonus Weekly Q&A Videos.
- Entire Coaching Video Library.
- Memberships auto-renew, so you can stay as long as you like.
- Easy 1-click cancellation. Cancel anytime.
- Join us from anywhere in the world.
- Your program begins instantly!
1 Year Access
$799
One Time Payment
- Access to the 90-Day Program.
- Bonus Weekly Q&A Videos.
- Entire Coaching Video Library.
- One-time payment.
- Membership for a full year, to really get your sobriety game strong!
- Join us from anywhere in the world.
- Your program begins instantly!
You’re in the right place
You, my friend, are stronger than you know. But if you’re anything like me, you’re so OVER the constant internal battle. You just want someone to tell you what works.
I get it, and I’m here to help.
The thing about drinking is we can forget what we even used to enjoy before wine came along. Throughout this program, you’ll rediscover what makes you tick; what lights you up. Not only that, but you’ll discover exactly how and why this self-awareness is so powerful.
Together, we’ll write a whole new story.
A story that focuses on where you’re going, not where you’ve been. Because a mixture of education and self-love is a powerful thing.
Say yes to a life you love
Bonus
Q&A Videos and Coaching Video Library
Join now and receive access to our bonus weekly Q&A videos – a private place online where you can ask burning questions, share your latest insights and celebrations, and receive ongoing connection and support. New prompts await you every week, on topics such as fears, nutrition, self-care, mindset, creativity, spirituality, and relationships. In each session we cover a powerful new topic designed to help you thrive throughout the program and beyond!
“In the end, it didn’t matter whether I drank every day, or binge-drank once a week. What mattered was the effect drinking was having on my soul.”
– Bex Weller
Rest Easy. We’ve Got You Covered.
Members-Only Portal
90 Daily Lessons
Together with soul-sparking daily inspiration emails to keep you focused, excited, and on track, every step of the way.
Members-Only Portal
90 Daily Lessons
Together with soul-sparking daily inspiration emails to keep you focused, excited, and on track, every step of the way.
24/7 Access
A support system in your pocket: login from the privacy of your own home or using any mobile device, from anywhere in the world.
Stories & Inspiration
Audio pep talks, video interviews, and journals designed for deep reflection and rediscovering what truly lights you up.
24/7 Access
A support system in your pocket: login from the privacy of your own home or using any mobile device, from anywhere in the world.
Stories & Inspiration
Audio pep talks, video interviews, and journals designed for deep reflection and rediscovering what truly lights you up.
Elixirs & Desserts
A heavenly stash of glow-inducing recipes and elixirs to keep your mouth deliciously occupied.
Powerful Confidence
Because you said YES to the life you want, and stood up for what’s best for you, 90 days in a row!
Elixirs & Desserts
A heavenly stash of glow-inducing recipes and elixirs to keep your mouth deliciously occupied.
Powerful Confidence
Because you said YES to the life you want, and stood up for what’s best for you, 90 days in a row!
IF WE HAVEN’T MET YET
Hi, I’m Bex Weller.
Health & Life Coach, Author and Speaker. Named ‘one of Perth’s leading Healthpreneurs’ by The Sunday Times Magazine, I help women from around the world to create alcohol-free lives they love.
Author of the bestselling sobriety memoir, A Happier Hour, creativity memoir, Up All Day, and my newest book, Chameleon: Confessions of a Former People-Pleaser, I write about love, life, and the strength and potential of the human spirit.
But it wasn’t always this way
For years, I struggled…
At 39 years of age (and a Health Coach, no less!), I should’ve known better than to down several bottles of wine per week. But drinking doesn’t work like that, does it? It’s a sneaky little monster that creeps up day-by-day until it completely destroys all self-worth and happiness.
Back then, I wasn’t sure if I ‘had a problem’, or if I even fit any of the typical stereotypes. But what I did know was that I was sick of the anxiety, shame and nausea, and the hold alcohol had over me. I wanted to feel confidence that was authentically me, not poured from a bottle. I wanted to experience deeper connections and self-worth; more space, more love, more potential.
In March 2014, on one of ‘those’ mornings filled with regret and tears, I decided to conduct a powerful experiment. An experiment that changed my life.
This is the coaching program I wish I’d had during those first 90 days.
“Sexy Sobriety has changed my life. I’m definitely a different, BETTER, person today than I was 30 days ago! You are helping so many of us women who thought we couldn’t get through sobriety. Truly a game changer!”
– CLARA, USA
90 daily lessons
24/7 access
journals and inspiration
proven roadmap
so what are you waiting for?
Let’s do this!
Sexy Sobriety Membership
Monthly Subscription
$99
Per Month
- Access to the 90-Day Program.
- Bonus Weekly Q&A Videos.
- Entire Coaching Video Library.
- Memberships auto-renew, so you can stay as long as you like.
- Easy 1-click cancellation. Cancel anytime.
- Join us from anywhere in the world.
- Your program begins instantly!
1 Year Access
$799
One Time Payment
- Access to the 90-Day Program.
- Bonus Weekly Q&A Videos.
- Entire Coaching Video Library.
- One-time payment.
- Membership for a full year, to really get your sobriety game strong!
- Join us from anywhere in the world.
- Your program begins instantly!
Still have questions?
No problem. Let’s get you some answers.