Oh, hello!

If we haven’t met yet, I’m Rebecca Weller – Holistic Health & Life Coach, Author, Speaker, and Founder of Sexy Sobriety.

Named ‘One of Perth’s leading Healthpreneurs’ by The Sunday Times Magazine, I’ve had the honour of helping thousands of incredible souls to get their sparkle back and create a life they love. You can read more about that here.

So how exactly does a Health Coach find herself in a dysfunctional relationship with alcohol? You can read more of my sobriety story here.

As Seen On

Telstra Business Awards 2017 Finalist: Sexy Sobriety
The Sunday Times Magazine: Perth Healthpreneurs Leading the Charge
The West Australian: Perth’s 10 Key Influencers
News.com.au / The Australian: Is Alcohol Destroying Us?
Elle Québec Magazine: Sobriety – The Feminine Revolution
Channel 7’s ‘Sunday Night’: Sexy Sobriety: Encouraging Women to try Sobriety
6PR Radio: Rebecca Weller with Simon Beaumont
SiriusXM Radio: Rebecca Weller on The Jennifer Fulwiler Show
Perth Now: Taking up the Sexy Sobriety Challenge
The Huffington Post: Is it Worth it? Reflections from 2 Years of Sobriety

Hello Sunday Morning: Reverse Your Thinking: Focus on What You Want
Hello Sunday Morning: Inspiring Women Changing Their Relationship with Alcohol
MindBodyGreen: Why I Finally Gave Up Booze
MindBodyGreen: I Haven’t Had a Drink in One Year. Here’s How Life Has Changed.
Lorna Jane’s Move Nourish Believe: On Choosing Self-Love
Hayley Carr TV: This Might Be The Sexiest Thing You Do All Year
Don’t Freak Out Podcast – Episode 17: Alcohol and Anxiety
The Sober Experiment Podcast – Season 2, Episode 11: Courage, Epiphanies, and Big Life Changes
Love Sober Podcast – Episode 29: Loving Sobriety
1000 Days Sober Podcast – Episode 46: Magical Mindset

We Want to Be Better Podcast – Season 9, Episode 2: Alcohol and Moderation
Sober Magic Podcast – Episode 21: The Magic of Discovering Who We Truly Are
The Happy Nurse Podcast – Episode 25: Self Care Beyond Alcohol
Coffee and Contemplation Podcast – Episode 28: “It’s Always Awkward Before It’s Elegant”
Write and Change Lives – Author Reveal Series: Bex Weller
The Sober Sessions Panel – Sobriety, Creativity, and Mental Health
She’s Sober Sydney! Podcast – The Glorious Bex Weller

Why did I create Sexy Sobriety?

It was in March 2014 that I last had a hangover. Since I last woke up at 5am, staring at the ceiling with my dehydrated head pounding, wondering why the hell I kept doing this to myself…

It was in March 2014 that I last had a drink.

And if you’d told me back then that life would be better on this side, I wouldn’t have believed you.

How would I have fun? How would I relax? Can I even socialise without wine?

I wouldn’t have understood exactly how much sobriety enhances my clarity, creativity, and productivity. I wouldn’t have known the difference it makes to my confidence and self-worth – or just how freakin’ proud of myself I would feel.

If I hadn’t tried a sobriety experiment for myself, I’d never have known my true potential.

But I’m not gonna’ lie, the first 90 days were tough.

Every night at 6pm, when I’d usually pour myself a glass of wine, I didn’t quite know what to do with myself. I felt irritated and out-of-sorts. I wanted to feel happy and confident in my choice not to drink. Forget FOMO, I wanted to feel empowered by the changes I was making.

So I had an idea.

I felt deeply inspired to create something that would help other people through those first 90 days. So they could see for themselves just how good sobriety can feel, and what a difference it can make to their lives.

Inspiring interviews with kick-ass babes who wouldn’t be where they are now if they hadn’t ditched the drink. Sophisticated, sugar & alcohol-free elixir recipes, to keep their mouths deliciously occupied. Stories, pep talks and journals, for deep reflection and getting their heads straight.

Fun, simple, daily exercises. A coaching program to make it feel like an adventure, not deprivation.

And now?

Sexy Sobriety is finally here! Won’t you join us?

I got to know, through Bex and others who eventually took her Sexy Sobriety course, that it was amazing. Here was a woman who was not only embracing herself and all that she was without the glass of champa’s in her hand, but she was creating a safe space for all women who would like to do the same thing. A place they could go and be supported in. Which is something that was, and is, desperately needed.

Where I can still get caught up in some of my darkness surrounding becoming sober, Bex is a light. She has an energy about her that is not only contagious, but is exactly what is needed to help women realise there is a fabulously amazing life outside of the 3am kebab’s, the falling asleep in the back of cabs, the memory blanks, the guilt and shame and the loss of self that can come with a wonky relationship with booze.

I am honoured that now I can share a resource unlike any other in the market today when it comes to helping women break free from this pattern of life – Bex’ online home of ‘Sexy Sobriety’.

Alice Nicholls

The Whole Daily

Sexy Sobriety – A new movement, empowering women to give up the booze in style!

Desiree Taylor

The beautiful Bex Weller, my IIN coach last year, has started a programme called Sexy Sobriety, borne of her own journey with alcohol. She seems to have hit the spot for many people.

Jane Treleaven

Essentially Being

If you like the idea of sobriety but don’t have a clue where you’d start, Bex has you covered with the most supportive and informative community over at Sexy Sobriety.
Sexy Sobriety is packed with people all making the commitment to ditch the alcohol for at least 90 days, and to start living their life to the max. If you want this to be the year you turn your dreams into a reality, become the healthiest happiest version of you, or simply be the year you ditch those time wasting hangovers – head over to Sexy Sobriety!

Katy Robinson

The Nourishing Concept

If this is something that resonates with you – maybe you’re sick of being in your own vicious cycle – then how about checking out Sexy Sobriety? Bex has been through the same thing, that dependency on alcohol and the shameful mornings after, so she’s put this program together with no judgement and a whole lot of love and understanding.

Bianca MacDonald

Vitality Health Coaching

If you feel it’s time for you, and you could do with more sexy sobriety inspiration, you don’t have to go it alone!
Do yourself a huge favour and regain your optimal state of health by joining Bex’s extra supportive community. Subscribe to a Sexy Sobriety membership via the website, and get the party started!
Sexy Sobriety… you’ll LOVE it! xx

Clare Evans

Read The Books

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“Bex, just wanted to say how much I am loving everything and how grateful I am for the messages you are sharing. Thanks again for creating this amazing program.”

“Thank you so much. I’m all registered and really looking forward to this experience. Giving myself a HUGE high-five for tackling this during the holidays.”

“Wow, LOVE how you have laid it out, from a coaching perspective – super WOW! From a sober sexy girl – WOW! Excited to be part of this, only first day in phase one completed and I already feel supported. Thanks Bex!”

“Hi lovely Bex, I’m feeling good, empowered and a little excited! Your words have really resonated because I can relate, so thank you for inviting me on the journey of my sober life!”

“Bex, you are a true inspiration and the work you have put into and continue to do on your program is amazing. I’m on day 60 and I’m really thinking about things differently thanks to your wise advice and helpful ideas about self care.”

“I’m on day 55! Your program has been huge in changing my relationship with alcohol. It’s amazing how different I feel. Thank you for making this program. It’s so exciting being on this journey.”

“Bex, I was just thinking this morning that this was exactly what I wanted – and then the Universe presented you and your website.”

“Firstly, well freaking done on setting this up! I’m on day 3!!!
Thank you.”

“It’s such an amazing program, and SUCH an important message too. Thanks heaps!”

“Sending you a huge hug, what you’ve done here is fabulous!”

“Thank you so much for creating a concept like this.”

“Thank you so much! I’ve tried to quit drinking many times before, but this program has actually made me excited about it.”

“Thanks again. You have helped me so much already and it is only Day 19 for me
– my 19th day of clear-headed, real-emotioned sobriety!”

“I was ready to let go of the wine, but without Sexy Sobriety I would have caved by now. Just knowing that I am committed to this has kept me strong. Thank you so much for creating this program! I feel so great!”

“Seriously, you are so awesome. I love this program!”

“You’re offering tremendous value! When people give up alcohol (I know in my case) you’re already saving yourself (at minimum) $50 a week.”

“So much love for you and your work. You are an amazing woman, Rebecca. Keep doing what you’re doing.”

“I just want to say that ‘meeting’ you was one of the best things that happened to me this year and I am so grateful for all you did for me, and continue to do.”

“Bex, thanks so much for your advice and for being there when I needed you most! Your program is really amazing and is just what I needed to help me. Thanks again.”

“I’m really enjoying the program over here in Toronto! Thanks for the great program, Bex. You’ve done a wonderful job and have such a lovely, kind voice. I’m feeling really good about the whole thing.”

“Hi Becca, I love your approach – non judgemental and inspiring. xx”

“Thank you so much. I am on day 18 & feeling fab. x”

“Just signed up, completed activity one in my journal, and feeling very positive. I know I will encounter some challenges but this exercise has been really enlightening for me.”

“Hey Bex, I’m so glad to be a part of Sexy Sobriety. It really is just what I need right now. Thanks!”

“Hi Bex, thanks so much for putting his program together! It has been a massive support so far. I’m 2 weeks in and already feeling heaps better. Love the mix of content and easy, bite sized delivery.”

“It’s a big step for me to do this and Sexy Sobriety makes it so much easier and more fun and inspiring. I feel like I am gaining rather than missing out. So thank you!”

“Hi Rebecca, Firstly a HUGE thank you! I am SO pleased that I enrolled on the Sexy Sobriety path. I am now on day 42 and feel amazing. Thank you for being such an inspiration. I am on such a wonderfully happy & exciting journey now.”

“Thanks again for everything. This website came at the perfect time for me.”

“Can’t believe I’m on Day 117! You are an angel! I couldn’t have done this without you. For years I’ve tried to cut out the cycle of drinking. My outlook is so different now. Your light shines clear across the world!”

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